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slemslempike ([personal profile] slemslempike) wrote2006-09-15 03:45 pm
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But I like the rape jokes best of all!

I am reading about humour at the moment. This is problematic because every now and then the authors will make jokes to illustrate a point, and they're never funny, and I waste time wondering if it's me or them. But the hilarity of the commentary more than makes up for this. My favourite to date:

"nonsense jokes were preferred by females, especially those with low intelligence".

There was an article that consisted, in its entirety, of a summarised paragraph of the time the author regaled a conference with funny things her au pairs had said. These were funny apparently both at the time, and then later once the girls had learnt English, and the family could throw their mistakes in their faces. There was also an article about Welsh jokes, that concluded that there was no staple stereotype used by the English when joking about the Welsh. I can think of one, and I bet most of you can too. Is it so recent? The article's from 1977.

Deserving of an extra special mention though, is an article called "Female Responses to Chauvinism". What I expected was a study on how women resisted sexist jokes. What I got was an article about how sexually attractive women were mattered for how funny they found jokes. The initial studies were criticised for how they decided the scale of attractiveness (they'd got some lecturers to compare notes on female students), which wasn't objective. There were also some whiners saying that perhaps judging women on their attractiveness wasn't quite on, and shouldn't it be how attractive they felt? So the authors did a new study, combining these! They used vital statistics as an objective measure of attractiveness (they went with the bust/waist ratio), and asked women to rate themselves.

It wasn't just seuxal attractiveness that was measured. "The girls were also assessed for their views on Women's Liberation." Interesting. "Those in sympathy expressed little amusement at cartoons involving rape", the humourless bitches. Furthermore, "they took special delight in the opposite, that is, jokes denigrating men". That was probably the start of when feminism started going Too Far.

Apparently plain girls are usually disapproving of sex because they don't get any and they're trying not to be jealous. They also laugh more at male chauvinist jokes becuase they are imagining themselves in the position of getting all that lovely sexual attention from men. Attractive girls are obviously very approving of sex, the dirty sluts, but they don't laugh so much at the jokes because they already have a surfeit of male attention. To be fair to the authors, they do momentarily wonder if using Freud as a basis for female sexuality is wise, but eventually conclude that:

Nevertheless, we are left with the finding that girls who are 'built; in the sense of having a desirable female shape expressed a relative liking for cartoons concered with intercourse and treating the female as a sex toy. Perhaps girls who are shapely but otherwise unattractive come into their own during sex play, that is, their shapely form will be most appreciated at this time.
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[identity profile] edithmatilda.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 02:54 pm (UTC)(link)
I... think my brain just fell out.

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:03 pm (UTC)(link)
(I've edited the post because the top somehow disappeared.)

Possibly this is why another study claims that low-intelligence women like nonsense jokes. Because they break our brains with this stuff, and then all we can do is laugh helplessly at the absurdity of it all.
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[identity profile] edithmatilda.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Maybe "nonsense" means "things we were to humourless to understand".

"What's the difference between a duck?" is a great joke. They oppress me!

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Very probably. "so, the woman says "no thanks, I'm not interested in men, I'm a lesbian" what? women not interested in men? Not welcoming the sexual attention of us leering down tops and rubbing up against bums? A what-bian? A lesbiwho?

That is a good joke. That is, in fact, a great joke.
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[identity profile] edithmatilda.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:26 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeuch. Remembering a friend's twenty-first where she thought it'd be fun to go to The Boat, a floating nightclub of extreme unpleasantness where your body is clearly fair game because hey, if you didn't want men to grope your thighs on the stairs why would you have thighs? That night did enable me to perfect an inconspicuous shin-kick, though, so it was not wasted.

Obviously I have no sense of humour.

[identity profile] huskyteer.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
Some chauvinist jokes I laugh at, some I get offended by. I honestly can't tell whether some are more offensive than others or some are funnier; I believe it's the latter, but I can't be sure.

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:16 pm (UTC)(link)
Perhaps sometimes you're wearing make-up and are therefore more sexually attractive to men and therefore you laugh less because you're less jealous?

Jokes are all about context, and whether or not you think someone believes that women are inferior, and how much their opinion matters will affect how jokes are received. There was actually a rather good article in the collection about jokes as social tool for controlling deviance talking about groups of feminist women laughing at chauvinism jokes when they thought that the teller agreed with them that they were wrong, and glaring when they thought the teller believed in the inferiority of women.

[identity profile] huskyteer.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Ding - that must be it!
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[identity profile] edithmatilda.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:21 pm (UTC)(link)
That does seem to apply across the board. You can make jokes about your own ethnicity, for example. Of course, it usually helps that they are funnier than the Bernard Manning type.

Today at the bus stop there were two guys gleefully exchanging racial slurs for fun. The black guy was getting the upper hand, the white guy said it was clearly because his brain worked better in this heat, and so forth. It was lovely. They were having fun. It was rather lovely.

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm just copying my notes on that!

"an ethnic joke, told within its own ethnic environment, strengthens the morale of the grup members and bolsters their sense of identity, but the very same joke may easily acquire a derisive and even insulting quality when told by an outsider who tried to imitate the tone and gestures typical of the ethnic group." (Zijderveld 1983)

There was an interesting (though outdated and therefore rather awful) thing I read about the reception of racial jokes. (Middleton 1959) found that black people enjoyed anti-white humour more than white people, but also that black people enjoyed anti-black humour more than white people enjoyed anti-white humour, and that there were more self-mocking jokes told in the black community than in the white community (although that's probably fairly obvious what with the blindess to white as a race thing).

"Yet, self-deprecating humour is not necessarily the result of such an instability of identity. When a minority has acquired a measure of self-consioucsness, self-deprecating humour may underscore its newly acquired identity and cn thereby strengthen its solidarity and cohesion" (Zijderveld again)
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[identity profile] edithmatilda.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 09:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Arabs need better self-mocking jokes. Or maybe I am but a half-breed and not allowed to play.

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 09:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Possibly they don't tell them to you because they think you're too attractive to laugh? Or you could develop your own line of mixed-race nonsense jokes and tell them at right-on people who will not know whether or not to laugh. Go on.
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Yes, I am a humourless feminist, why do you ask?

[identity profile] oursin.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:17 pm (UTC)(link)
Laughing at men's jokes has nothing to do with whether the jokes are funny or not: it would have made a lot more sense to examine how attractive/powerful in relation to the women the males telling the jokes were.* We're talking obsequious deference and reflecting at twice natural size here, aren't we? This is a bit like saying bosses' jokes are hilarious because everybody laughs at them: the sycophants.

*Okay, there are some men who really are really, really funny and are able to 'laugh women into bed' in spite of any obvious disadvantages. They are not in the majority

Re: Yes, I am a humourless feminist, why do you ask?

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:22 pm (UTC)(link)
The main theorist on fun keeps saying that fun is all about the negation of power inequalities (he's also the one that thinks competition "just is" and is not at all gendered, too), without looking at how that can be possible in a mixed sex group.

They used seaside postcards for the study, I think, and didn't think anything of it, although another article from the same proceedings points out that these were mostly drawn by men for a male audience. But they didn't mention the attractiveness of the people handing them the postcards, or look at their reaction to non-sex-joke funny postcards to see if there was a difference there. It is from 1977, which isn't entirely the excuse.
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Re: Yes, I am a humourless feminist, why do you ask?

[identity profile] oursin.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 06:40 pm (UTC)(link)
I think McGill's 'I can't see my little willy' is fairly funny, but possibly in a hostile sort of way... A lot of seaside postcard humour is less than flattering to the men involved.

[identity profile] ankaret.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Ugh. I'm trying very hard to see this as a cheering measure of how far we've come since the 70s (getting lecturers to rate female students?) but I keep sidetracking onto 'where were all the lesbians?' and wondering whether they were the only ones wearing sensible enough shoes to run away from these people.

*offers mental floss*

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:36 pm (UTC)(link)
They were teacher training students as well. It was probably part of the formal evaluation and reference package.

They probably think that they covered "lesbian" in "women's liberation sympathiser".

[identity profile] ankaret.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:43 pm (UTC)(link)
For some reason probably connected to seaside postcards this made me think about that bizarre thing, the chat-up line / insult - you know, those 'Fuck me if I'm wrong, but is your name Gertie Lottacock?' / 'Well, it's not going to suck itself' / 'I'm not the best-looking man in here, but I'm the only one paying attention to you' / 'No, you misheard, I didn't ask if you wanted a drink, I said your breath stinks' lines as opposed to the 'I hope you know CPR, because you took my breath away' / 'Your daddy must be a baker because your buns so fine' sort of line that's cheesy but not actually confrontational.

I've always assumed that they were trying to protect themselves from rejection by claiming that they meant it insultingly all along if necessary (though surely they get more rejections than men who rely on 'Hey, can you stand still so I can read your t-shirt'), or, conceivably, that they were trying to pick out women with low self-esteem, but I'm now wondering whether it's a clueless application of the idea that the way to woo women is with humour.
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[identity profile] oursin.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 06:42 pm (UTC)(link)
It's both insulting and has the get-out clause of 'only joking, luv'.

Here is my totally hilarious steel toecap in the groin. Some men just can't take a joke.

[identity profile] cangetmad.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:27 pm (UTC)(link)
There was also an article about Welsh jokes, that concluded that there was no staple stereotype used by the English when joking about the Welsh. I can think of one, and I bet most of you can too.

Yes, indeed, and my (Welsh) grandfather has alluded to hearing it when he was studying in Birmingham in the 1940s, so it's not new.

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:35 pm (UTC)(link)
There could have been some interesting post-paper questions there. "Have you not heard the one about the farmer?"

It talks about the old sterotype in jokes being that the Welsh were boastful, which is in Henry V I think, and then sometimes being an alternative for Scotsman in the Englishman/Irishman/Scotsman jokes.

[identity profile] cangetmad.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:39 pm (UTC)(link)
It's this sort of thing that makes time travel so desirable. I need to go back in time, locate a conference at which this author is speaking, and stand up and ask "Why do Welshmen wear wellies?"

(Anonymous) 2006-09-15 03:40 pm (UTC)(link)
"I think we could open that up to the panel, couldn't we? Daffyd, you start us off..."
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[identity profile] edithmatilda.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Also, would the study have been different had an arse man been choosing the criteria? I think we should be told...

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:33 pm (UTC)(link)
I bet I could get funding to replicate the study to try all the different parts of a woman's body against humour. It'd be easier than getting funding for a feminist study looking at the attractiveness of the men.
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[identity profile] edithmatilda.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 03:39 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm probably not amused by blonde jokes because my ears are too damn small. Must have surgery!

[identity profile] girlofprey.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Why were people in the past such fools?

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-15 07:18 pm (UTC)(link)
Largely because we were not there to guide them, I feel. Although the present is very foolish also but in slightly different ways.

[identity profile] blindfish.livejournal.com 2006-09-16 01:54 pm (UTC)(link)
Strongly resists need to bang head against sharp edge of desk until the world where these things are present is blotted out.

[identity profile] slemslempike.livejournal.com 2006-09-16 02:11 pm (UTC)(link)
It was about thirty years ago though! That's the only thing that keeps me remotely sane.