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I had a DELIGHTFUL night last night with [ profile] tiniago. We met up years ago when I used to come down to London regularly to museums and theatre, and since I moved back have been playing an excellent game of "leave several weeks between responses so that the plans originally mooted are out of date", which I think we shall call a draw as we were both very committed to it before cracking and making yer actual arrangement.

We went to a life drawing class at a gallery in Haggerston. It was run by "The Naked Truth" who, it turned out, are doing it as a feministish body positive workshop thing. I just thought it would be fun to draw. The session was going to be lots of short poses, then a brief break, then a long pose of about an hour, then a discussion about how we felt about it all. Now, I am ALL FOR long talks about feelings, but earlier in the day [ profile] tiniago had mentioned that we could eat steak. That, coupled with my inability to draw more than a sketch, meant that we made a pact very early on to leave at the break in search of food.

The atmosphere was nicely thrownback feminism - women sitting on the floor around wooden boxes (to rest our paper on), joss sticks scenting the room with a vaguely 70s feel. I think there were about 25-30 women drawing, and maybe 60% of those were white, but almost all under thirty, I'd guess. Everyone got paper, and there was a choice of pencils and crayons. The table next to us had tiger colouring pencils, and we had these really nice crayony things that almost certainly have a proper name if you're an artist.

The organiser made quite a big deal about it being real women who they used, not professional models - and then the model (who was clearly nervous and I don't want to undermine that it was a big thing for her to do, and she did it really well) was beautiful by almost any standard commonly used today. So no fat, no rolls on the stomach even when she sat down, no gawky bits, no "too" skinny bones. It's tricky because I know that almost everyone has issues about their body, and just being typically attractive doesn't end that - but it felt like a rather limited message if it's about being body positive. Since we missed out the talking session at the end maybe that was covered, but as [ profile] tiniago said afterwards, we might just be at a different stage in our own relationships with our bodies.

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The pencil ones are the poses we started out with, very quick. I tended to start with the body (well, with boobs or bum to be honest) and then run out of room for the head, but since I can't draw faces this was no real hardship). Towards the end of this the person sitting next to me showed me how to do shading with smudging your finger and that was revolutionary for someone who can't draw an accurate outline (shades of Jennings putting two lines on a picture that changed it out of all recognition at Kingscote). THEN I got brave enough to use the crayons and I am so so pleased with the last one I did. Colouring covers a multitude of sins. The "queen of the galaxy" one in the middle was me trying to get a bit creative and coourful and just draw shapes. That did not work well but it was at least fun. I did find that I drew the model's breasts larger than they were. I also worried about her looking at the pictures and being self-conscious if I'd drawn them lopsided, or made her fatter than she was.

Perhaps the large amount of time I spend doodling has paid off, as my drawings were much better than I thought they would be. I would go to another class, but only if it were lots of little poses and nothing longer than 10 or 15 minutes at a time, as in the 45 minute session I just drew the same thing over and over, with decreasing returns.

After our escape at the break we boarded a bus to ToCoRo and went to Flatiron, where I had AMAZING steak. [ profile] tiniago urged me to get the chips, saying they were great, but I wasn't feeling that hungry. Then she offered me one of hers, and it was clear I had made a dreadful mistake, as they were DELICIOUS and I ate the vast majority of what was in her serving, which is terrible manners about sharing food (that wasn't even supposed to be shared) but there was no helping it. Here is a picture of my steak with the brilliant knife we got to use.


The man next to us had a large bone on his plate, so I don't know if there was a special offer for him, or if he had that particular cut, but the main menu is, in its entirety "steak, £10". Then there are sides you can add on, a single dessert, and what looked like some nice drinks. I plan to queue there to eat at every conceivable opportunity for the rest of my life.

Date: 2017-01-19 09:41 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Cor, I am very impressed by your ability to put stuff on paper that recognisably looks like what's in front of you, and especially when you had to sit on the floor to do it. This is why I don't go to things like this described as for beginners because I am clearly not even a beginner as I have no idea how to make lines on paper look even vaguely like an actual human being and wouldn't know where to start. There were art lessons at my school but I don't remember any of the teachers actually teaching anything useful as regards how to do it when you didn't have a clue. Pretty much like games that way.

And your life plan re steak is also worthy of applause. *applauds*

Date: 2017-01-19 09:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
I have made a plan to to Flatiron already next month. ALL STEAK ALL THE TIME.

It's the crayons that are magic. There should be a class where it's just messing around with crayons.

Date: 2017-01-20 09:02 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] jekesta
Your sketches are brilliant.
And that is the best menu.

Date: 2017-01-20 09:53 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
She had a really beautiful bum, and I felt genuinely quite sad that I wasn't going to be able to do it full justice. And when I'd worked out I could do colour, she'd turned around so I didn't get to try again.

It was some of the best steak I've ever had. Probably because it was salted and buttered.

Date: 2017-01-20 11:03 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Good drawing!

I can't help wondering from your description of the event whether it wouldn't have been better to have an experienced paid model, or ideally a couple of different body types.

Date: 2017-01-20 01:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
Yes, maybe different types of models would have been good. It was a free session, so paid models might not have worked for them, but I bet they could have volunteers of different backgrounds. I'd probably do it, but am not good at standing still.

Date: 2017-01-22 08:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
It was a lovely night. We are VERY ORGANISED LADIES with excellent COMMITMENT. Let's do it again soon!

Those drawings are so good, they look even better now I see them again. I love Grand High Queen Of The Galaxy Robotic Tits so much. I do urge you to form and spearhead your own feminist rebel alliance so you can have it on your banner.

I was thinking more about the body positive thing afterwards, and it did occur to me that although my reaction at the time was basically just the tenderness I tend to feel now for wonderful younger women who are holding themselves to impossible standards and think they're shit, it would have been a very different story if I'd gone to that five years ago, when I was also a woman in my twenties who thought I was shit, and also did not have a body anything like that of the model or any of the other women there! It might have been quite upsetting if I'd gone seeking body positivity - I'd probably have just used it as confirmation that if those women had grounds to worry, I should be really worried. Ho hum. I still think they did great. It is not their fault they were all stunningly beautiful! :D

I am pleased you acknowledge how dreadful your chip mistake was, but disagree that it was poor manners to eat mine. As you say, it couldn't be helped. You did what you had to do and I WAS PROUD OF YOU, BUDDY.

Date: 2017-01-23 11:15 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile]
WE are, and we should do it again soon!

I will offer it free for any rebel alliance who wishes to use it. That way I can live on in herstory without having to do the irritating organising bit.

That's true! It is hard to remember young people can't help the glow of youth that embeauties them.

THANK YOU. There are times when manners just get in the way.


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