often seen in the street without a hat

Haha! Way to COMPLETELY MISS THE POINT OF FEMINISM, dude. I am a fat lesbian, and very happy indeed to be that way. Without feminism, I'd still be a fat lesbian, I'd just be miserable. The whole point of feminism - well, not the whole point, but a main point - is to say that women don't need to be responsible to patriarchal standards for how they should live their lives, and that there's more that matters than men's opinions of us. If I get stereotyped as being unattractive to men, that's fine, because I never wanted to be attractive to men in the first place. There's no negative there.